Being mindful of 'self and my soul' during grief.

August 4, 2018
When a loved one passes away, mediums grief just as everyone else.

It was said to me recently by a wonderful medium and a mentor, that every time we do a session with a grieving person, we tug on their hearts, and emotions are brought to the surface. 
This I knew, as I always hoped to have left a person feeling healed after a very emotional session, and a feeling of hope and knowing of love between people and spirit. That spirit is just a heart's thought away.

As I say in the beginning of a session, quietly in my prayers, may this session be healing, and helpful and my they find Light in their grief.

In the past few years, I have lost several family members and friends. This has not allowed me to fully grief, while helping others and I have found that taking time for myself and self-care, and self love has become pivotal.
Love can never be measured, nor can grief ever be measured.

As love is a deep emotion, so is grief and it comes and goes in waves. Healing the heart after loss is essential.
This has also caused me to be backed up with my work in helping others. 
I recently realized that for me to continue as a medium, not to be exhausted I had to take some time off, only about a month, for self reflection and surround myself with family who also were connected to those who passed away.
Grief is hard, and creating a new life after loss, can become challenging but it is doable.
Being away from family can be the hardest so connecting with people, who also knew the loved one can be immensely helpful.
Self care, going for walks, meditating, or as I do, enjoy nature beach and geothermal outdoor swimming pools, and connecting with my youth, has been the most healing. Being surrounded by pets, who love unconditionally has also been essential.

Mediums grief, just as everyone else. 
 

How do you know?!

October 25, 2017
Frequently in sessions, people are surprised by the information that comes through.
Granted, some days the information is very pure, and specificity is uncanny. 
When spirit does flow through, they have to pull on, and trigger parts of memory in my mind. The more I pay attention in every day life, the more information can flow through in a session.
Yet, there is also a part that spirit can pull up in my mind, topics I know nothing about and have zero interest in. I still must always remain open...
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There are days....

October 16, 2017
There are days, when there's not a good connection between myself and the spirit world. I've learned not to fuss about it, and I always remind my clients that it's not their fault and it isn't my fault, but sometimes a medium just doesn't quite catch the frequency needed. 
I liken this to a shortwave radio. As a child, I would borrow my dad's radio sometimes and I would scan through the stations. Where I grew up, and during the time I grew up, we only had one radio station, unless we had a fan...
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I wrapped myself in her Love

June 30, 2017
In the past few months, I have certainly experienced a roller coaster hopefully not many have to endure. 
I experienced my mom's passing and thankfully I have done everything that has been suggested by spirit, and people in my office to help me move through the loss of my mom.
Well, my mom is not lost, nor did I lose her. She's always with me, she is now that 'living' voice in my head, not the imaginary the one we say to ourselves, I wonder what mom would do. No, now mom is alive and well withi...
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Time for Self, and soul connections.

December 9, 2016
When mediums come together, we often feel a deep connection. We understand one another, our lives, our vivid world of spirit connections. It's an unusual world in some ways as we experience, from seeing, feeling, hearing and merging with spirit how they spent their final moments in life. 
It can be a very heart wrenching, and yet heartfelt experience at the same time. 
For moments, we take on the experience, we move through it, we merge with it, we share it. 
It all affects us as mediums, especi...
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Afterlife Explorers and Mediumship Convention

November 23, 2016
A few days ago, many of the Certified Mediums with the Forever Family Foundation came together for the first annual Afterlife and Mediumship convention.

We all arrived, 11 mediums on 11/11. Mediums I deeply connect with, but rarely see as we are all busy with our work in our own hometowns. 
During our convention, it was such a great gift to me, to sit with them, during lunch and dinner and to connect with them. During the day, I got a few spare moments to connect with some of the attendees. 
I a...
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The Value of a Session

October 11, 2016
It sometimes comes up in conversation that there are those that do not believe mediums ought to be paid for their work, and there are some that feel that some mediums are very expensive.
It is a dialogue I have heard ever since I began working as a medium.

In a realistic world it is not possible for a medium to survive without payment, and a fair payment. One then may think what is a fair payment.

To let my readers in to the world of excellent mediums, we must take very good care of our bodies, ...
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The street corner gypsies and other non-ethical so-called psychics

June 20, 2016
It happens, far too frequently that people are taken advantage of, by fraudulent psychics and gypsies.
The stories I have heard, are countless by now, and every time I hear of a person falling for a scam it saddens me deeply. 
On the other hand, when a person catches themselves before the scam has taken place, I must praise them.

How to spot it? 
Well, if a psychic has a store front in an expensive area, and lures you in by a coupon or by saying first 10 minutes are $10 or something on that note,...
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The Essence of our Soul

June 9, 2016
The one thing we have, that is whole, that is sacred that can never been damaged, dented, or broken is our soul.
We carry deep wisdom within our souls, and our souls lighten our paths, when we listen.
There are times in our lives, that we find ourselves drawn to one 'light' and that being another person, their soul, their inner light. We are drawn to them for different reasons. Sometimes for our own soul to grow, and sometimes to just be and merge.
Life is a continued lesson, a classroom filled ...
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What goes in to pricing a session?

April 13, 2016
I often get asked the question, why are my prices so high?
When in reality, when people begin to think this through they are not at all that high.

Running an office in a large city costs money, and landlords are not willing to give discounts.
When assembling a website, a whole lot of things go in to it. 
Payment methods, file transfer websites, hosting, domain names, booking app, calendar plugins, upkeep of website to name a few things. All this costs money. On top if this each session for the be...
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