I wrapped myself in her Love

June 30, 2017
In the past few months, I have certainly experienced a roller coaster hopefully not many have to endure. 
I experienced my mom's passing and thankfully I have done everything that has been suggested by spirit, and people in my office to help me move through the loss of my mom.
Well, my mom is not lost, nor did I lose her. She's always with me, she is now that 'living' voice in my head, not the imaginary the one we say to ourselves, I wonder what mom would do. No, now mom is alive and well within my heart and mind. 
I was far away when she suddenly became ill. I received a phonecall in the middle of the night to hurry home. Within hours, I had booked a flight, and I was on the plane flying home. I remember packing my bags, thinking why on earth am I packing my black clothes? There was a intuition kicking in. 
My sister said to me, I don't think mom is coming home from this one. I remember thinking, mom is tenacious and I still should have a few more years with her. But my heart told me otherwise, so I packed my black clothes. It was like, well just in case, but god forbid. 
I arrived very early in the morning and my sister brought me right to the hospital. I said to my mom: I'm here, I'm here and she opened her eyes and tried to sit up, as if she was trying to hug me and welcome me. She was sedated, yet so alert she knew I was there. 
We spent a little time with her, and then I went home to rest. I knew the following days would be long. It was the middle of the winter and the nights felt like they were going on forever. 
I returned later that night, and from that moment on I barely left her side.
So many times I had observed people missing out on their loved ones passing. That was not going to happen to me, so I sat with her for hours on end, held her hand. My siblings took brakes and went home to rest. 
The evening she passed away, we had the biggest snowstorm in 80 years. My mom, was 80 years old. So the year she was born, was the last time, they had such an enormous snowstorm. It was typical mom, making sure we would never forget. 
She passed way, and I held her hand. I kissed her face, and I spoke with her. I knew my dad had arrived, and once he arrived, I began playing songs the two of them would have loved. I said to my mom, even though she was not alert at all, please go join dad, he's here. Join dad in a dance. And after playing several of their favourite songs, she took her last breath. I had already called my siblings and they were finding their way through the snowstorm, only to arrive 3 minutes after her passing. 
It was a passing, any loved one would wish for. I held her hand, I encouraged her, I played her music, I spoke with her, and made her promises. I did all the things, I knew to do.
After mom's passing, I immediately slept in her bed. I changed the linens, and as I lay down that night, I took it all in. The following days, I would sit in her chair and sometimes watch her favourite programs, just because, I knew it would be healing for me.
I have done, everything I knew to do, to help me heal and I'm doing very good. 
This summer, I flew home again as my siblings and I must take care of her home. 
A couple of days after I arrived, my sister, niece and I decided to plant some flowers in the cemetery. 
We got the flowers, but because my sister was at work and niece at school, I ended up doing most of the work. I enjoyed it. At one point, as I was planting the flowers I heard a voice in my head. Mom's voice saying, you're not making a very round circle. I responded, I know mom, I'm tired. Nobody will really notice. At one point I had my sister on the phone, asking her a question. She said something like: Can't you just ask mom?
Later she told me, her colleagues knew immediately she was talking to me. And yes I asked mom. 
I see her every day, and every evening. She guides me through her things. 
One day, my sister shared with me she was concerned she had tripped over the dog and I said I honestly don't think so, because a medium, colleague of mine, had brought her through with such detail and he mentioned how she collapsed, but not tripping. I knew in my heart, she just collapsed. 
The day my sister voiced her concerned, my mom came to me in a dream so vivid there was no question in my mind it was her. She walked me through every moment of her passing, as it was her experience. I later shared with my sister precisely how the dream was. 

Signs have been ample. The day after her passing my sister was wondering where her purse was and just couldn't remember. We're sitting in the living room, and then suddenly the radio in the hallway starts playing! My sister throws her arms up into the air, and stands up, goes in to the hallway and returns with mom's purse in one hand and the radio that began playing out of the blue. Those were some of the earlier signs, but there were more before and after her passing. 
What was interesting was the days after mom's passing, my sister would say, I wish I knew she was with dad, and I would say Oh, I know she is. Look at the signs we've been given. There was a nurse in the hospital with almost identical name to an aunt of ours and also our grandmother, who had a very unusual name. On the day of mom's burial, we went to her favourite restaurant and soon after we sat down, a beautiful song began playing in the loudspeakers. The same exact song that was played at her funeral. A song, not too common, but it is called Love.

When healing grief, and we do everything right, we lift the burden of grief tremendously. Whether that is playing our loved ones favourite songs, wearing their clothes, watching their favourite shows. All of the little things become so healing.

Life is Love - Live in Love.
 

Time for Self, and soul connections.

December 9, 2016
When mediums come together, we often feel a deep connection. We understand one another, our lives, our vivid world of spirit connections. It's an unusual world in some ways as we experience, from seeing, feeling, hearing and merging with spirit how they spent their final moments in life. 
It can be a very heart wrenching, and yet heartfelt experience at the same time. 
For moments, we take on the experience, we move through it, we merge with it, we share it. 
It all affects us as mediums, especi...
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Afterlife Explorers and Mediumship Convention

November 23, 2016
A few days ago, many of the Certified Mediums with the Forever Family Foundation came together for the first annual Afterlife and Mediumship convention.

We all arrived, 11 mediums on 11/11. Mediums I deeply connect with, but rarely see as we are all busy with our work in our own hometowns. 
During our convention, it was such a great gift to me, to sit with them, during lunch and dinner and to connect with them. During the day, I got a few spare moments to connect with some of the attendees. 
I a...
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The Value of a Session

October 11, 2016
It sometimes comes up in conversation that there are those that do not believe mediums ought to be paid for their work, and there are some that feel that some mediums are very expensive.
It is a dialogue I have heard ever since I began working as a medium.

In a realistic world it is not possible for a medium to survive without payment, and a fair payment. One then may think what is a fair payment.

To let my readers in to the world of excellent mediums, we must take very good care of our bodies, ...
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The street corner gypsies and other non-ethical so-called psychics

June 20, 2016
It happens, far too frequently that people are taken advantage of, by fraudulent psychics and gypsies.
The stories I have heard, are countless by now, and every time I hear of a person falling for a scam it saddens me deeply. 
On the other hand, when a person catches themselves before the scam has taken place, I must praise them.

How to spot it? 
Well, if a psychic has a store front in an expensive area, and lures you in by a coupon or by saying first 10 minutes are $10 or something on that note,...
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The Essence of our Soul

June 9, 2016
The one thing we have, that is whole, that is sacred that can never been damaged, dented, or broken is our soul.
We carry deep wisdom within our souls, and our souls lighten our paths, when we listen.
There are times in our lives, that we find ourselves drawn to one 'light' and that being another person, their soul, their inner light. We are drawn to them for different reasons. Sometimes for our own soul to grow, and sometimes to just be and merge.
Life is a continued lesson, a classroom filled ...
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What goes in to pricing a session?

April 13, 2016
I often get asked the question, why are my prices so high?
When in reality, when people begin to think this through they are not at all that high.

Running an office in a large city costs money, and landlords are not willing to give discounts.
When assembling a website, a whole lot of things go in to it. 
Payment methods, file transfer websites, hosting, domain names, booking app, calendar plugins, upkeep of website to name a few things. All this costs money. On top if this each session for the be...
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Avoiding Fraudulent Psychics

April 8, 2016
Every now and then, and actually far too frequently I come across clients who have in one way or another been scammed  or told things that are just not based on truth or reality.

There are fraudulent psychics that will lure you in, asking you for $10 for 10 minutes, reading your palm or pulling cards, giving you vague information that could and could not fit. They'll say something, right at the moment it's getting interesting, and ask if you'd like to extend your time and most people fall for ...
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To be Better or Bitter, that is the quesion.

February 21, 2016
The easy way, often times is to ignore, to shun, to do as if other people do not exist, after a disagreement.
On a soul level it is probably one of the unhealthiest ways, of dealing with a difficult situation, as the soul is stunted in its growth.

In my work, I see far too often, people having disagreements, needless pain and suffering taking place, because it was more important for one person to be right, than to love.

Recently in my work, I have met a few young people who were left out of th...
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Why we connect with the Spirit World may have multiple reasons.

February 1, 2016
When a person expresses a desire or a need to connect with the Spirit World, there usually has been a death, or a sudden drastic change in their lives that has prompted people to want to make contact.
This would be the most common reason, to find healing and to be able to carry on the light, their loved ones left behind, as well as heal wounds of life, when a sudden change happens. Coming to terms, with life being ever flowing.

There are some people, who find the healing to be immeasurable and ...
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