To be Better or Bitter, that is the quesion.

February 21, 2016
The easy way, often times is to ignore, to shun, to do as if other people do not exist, after a disagreement.
On a soul level it is probably one of the unhealthiest ways, of dealing with a difficult situation, as the soul is stunted in its growth.

In my work, I see far too often, people having disagreements, needless pain and suffering taking place, because it was more important for one person to be right, than to love.

Recently in my work, I have met a few young people who were left out of their father's lives, for one reason or another. And things were done, and things were said that caused years of pain in the child's heart. Unnecessary pain, that no parent should ever let their child go through.
This is across the board, when there is divorce or separation in a family, where two parents have either made it their mission to keep things away from a child, or a parent may have held letters or gifts from a child or a parent refuses to pay child support.
It is as if some people are fighting a war, a continuous war that nobody wins, and there are only losers.

If a person, could take a moment and instead of jumping in to a bumper car, and try to get their way and, they would instead find the Ferris wheel and travel to the top of the wheel and see the grandeur of life, the magnificence of life as being a magical existance, the miracle they created, when creating a child, then and only then is a person able to see that on a soul level, we as humans should never cause another person pain or harm, by being unkind or cutting another person out of a child's life.

Everyone agrees as time passes, and as we get older, we feel there is too much pain in the world, but are we aiding the pain, aggression, and disharmony by standing by, powerless?
Or are we finding the softer way, the gentler way of dealing with a difficult situation?

It is not about surrender, it is not about being right, it is not about having the last word.
Last words, insisting on being right, do not matter at all, at the end of someone's life.

What matters is, how gently did we love, how kindly did we live and how much love were we able to share from our own hearts, with others.

Hardships, can leave us better or bitter. There comes a day, hopefully in most people's lives when a person realizes it was never about being right, and I have the power to change the bitterness to sweetness.
Even when people accuse others of behaviours that they find unacceptable.
Is it the accusers right to judge so harshly and to influence other peoples opinions?
Or is it the accusers responsibility to recognize, hard times happen, how do we take them on.

Bitter or Better?

Always chose better, as love, kindness and tenderness brings us over the greatest valleys, and the tallest peaks.
Love conquers all, love is the bridge to peace and harmony in life.

Why we connect with the Spirit World may have multiple reasons.

February 1, 2016
When a person expresses a desire or a need to connect with the Spirit World, there usually has been a death, or a sudden drastic change in their lives that has prompted people to want to make contact.
This would be the most common reason, to find healing and to be able to carry on the light, their loved ones left behind, as well as heal wounds of life, when a sudden change happens. Coming to terms, with life being ever flowing.

There are some people, who find the healing to be immeasurable and ...
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Reflection of ones Soul

November 2, 2015
One of my all-time favourite things to do, is going to peoples homes and doing group sessions. These groups are always filled with love, high energy, compassion and hopes that everyone receive a message from their loved one. Everyone, wants for the other, the absolute best. People are in unity, hoping and praying their loved ones come through, but also that all the others receive the same gift.

I feel these groups, are often filled with people, who are on a spiritual path, who in some ways are...
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The Compassionate Listener

October 31, 2015
Recently I saw a video of Thich Nhat Hahn and Oprah where he reflected on the Compassionate listener. It touched my soul in a deep way, as I reflected on that. Am I able to be present with and for people when the seek that. As I reflect on it, the awareness of it is there. I try my best.

Also after sitting for a week, in front of a great teacher, Dr. Brian Weiss I find myself reflecting on his energy. I see him as the true Zen master, as he is running workshops and lectures all around the worl...
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What is the englightened soul?

October 31, 2015
People are so quick to judge. It is surely easier to judge, and to cut people off, than show bravery and say: Hey lets work on this soul lesson.

A handful of years ago, a close family member passed away. Someone I adored. It was someone who was filled with judgment and prejudice. The older I got, the more I saw it, the more I distanced myself from them.
I found, I could not be in close contact with someone who judged all my closest friendships.
I never understood this behaviour, till after their...
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Power of Forgiveness

October 29, 2015
In my previous writing I spoke about love and reflecting on that, I have too, reflected much on the power of forgiveness.
As mentioned before we are born with Love and we come in to this life, only knowing love. Heaven is a place of unconditional love.
A child is sheltered, until it begins to attend school and engage in social environment. It begins the first few steps toward conflict and then the question is, does the child have the tools to engage in problem solving?
Some children are excellen...
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The heart knows....

September 18, 2015
Spirit is my greatest teacher. The people who have passed on, as well as my helpers in the Spirit world.
I will always be grateful when I have a session, with people who have learned amazing lessons of love in this life time. 
One of the greatest lessons of love is forgiveness.

The power of forgiveness is the greatest healer there is. When we forgive others, as we forgive ourselves our hearts soften. 
A tender heart cannot be broken, only hard fragile hearts can break in to million pieces.

When a ...
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Lay person's definition of my profession.

September 13, 2015
After a great deal of thought for a few days now, and descending back to a calm peace of mind I have reflected on the lay person that recently defined my work, for me.
This is a person, who's job I would never define. I do not work nor operate within their profession and I will not cross those lines. I will ask them, should I need to, what does it entail.

Recently in a place of anger a person accused me of being a Psychic, and that in Websters Dictionary right underneath it, it said that Psychi...
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Prejudism in 2015

September 9, 2015
In the 15 years that I have been in practice, I so often run in to close mindedness and prejudice. 
It truly is saddening, and at times maddening, to listen to people speak, to quote scriptures as if that is the only truth, to hide behind old prejudice that has no place in 2015.

Far too many, express fear in the unknown, tied in with deep prejudice, but history has shown us, time and time again the unknown, is where the true gifts are discovered. Or as Gandhi said: Be the change, you want to se...

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'The Trickle Effect'

October 16, 2010
One never truly knows how one is inspiring or influencing other peoples lives.
It has happened on a handful of occasions that I've done sessions that were life changing for me.

I think this note may be a note many other mediums may share similar experiences as my thoughts will bring you.
As mediums we are trained not to become caught up in other peoples emotions. We are trained to remain in the energy and truly blend with spirit so that we may convey their deepest most thoughts and emotions. It ...

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